After divorce it seems that the whole world has stopped for you. But you should allow the situation to take command over you. Rather then being ruled you should be the master of the situation and therefore moving on in life is so important after divorce. You can always learn from your mistakes. It is always difficult to part ways with your life partner who over the period of time has become your part only. But this is life and after the divorce you should look for new things in your life that can bring the smile back in your face. You can adopt new hobbies at the local church or at your own community or if possible in you home itself.
After shedding tears for a while you will start to find things that can fill in hours. If you are loner so be it, you can utilize the time learning new things and learning new skills like taking art class or learning sculptures making pottery etc. You can try your hobby at writing and become a writer! You can start writing small stories or article describing your current emotions. Finally you will discover that the hobby can turn out to be a career option for you. Thus you can utilize your time in a more productive way rather than just eating ice cream in front of the TV. Women can take the hobby of Socializing. You may like to join a bowling league or the pool. You can also visit the community center once in a while and play cards out there and spent the time. The dance lesson is an important way for you to get back into interaction with people. Take the course on how to do some jazz or ballroom. These all activities will not only make you happy but also you will be able learn something new. You do not have to go alone essentially. You can take your cousin, brother or a close friend along with you to be your partner.This all will surely be a good experience. If all these don't suits you alternatively you can take a job of thing you already know.
If you had been a good sports person then you can also become the assistance coach or you can give coaching to the college team or team of high school. You can begin new chapter of AYSO. Some community services can also be started. Feeding the poor, collecting the money for the community or church are some of the services that can be performed.
Thus you can try anything to shift your attention and it would be great for you. Thus all the pain and sorrow will be easily gone and you will be in a more positive frame of mind. You can start solving the puzzle or increase the reading speed. If you are busy on all the new hobbies there is a chance that you will not think about all the negative things that has happened. This will prevent you to fall prey to bad habits like drinking and smoking. You will feel a positive energy.You can take classes at the local school or college, you can learn how to cook, write, paint or any thing that gives you energy and causes stimulation.Thus you only need to find the things that interests you . You can also develop hobbies revolving around the house. You can go antiquing with a friend or you can remodel or redecorate the entire hours to your likening. Again, anything that will help youto focus on the positive outlooks on life should be great.