Your relationship with a special guy has gone, but now you are missing him and want him back. Well, In order to get your ex boyfriend back, you need to spend sufficient time, effort, dedication and also some changes in your thinking and emotional which might be the hardest part. Here are some guidelines to get your boyfriend into your true lover once again.
First, it is important to allow your ex boyfriend sufficient space in order to come to terms with what has happened. You need to understand that right after breakup you have to avoid any contact with him because right now you are vulnerable and may do something that will take your ex boyfriend away even more from you.
Then, you need to examine your ex boyfriend's mistakes and your mistakes about what went wrong in the relationship. Think about why you want to get back with your ex together. Is it even worth the effort trying to re-establish a new relationship with your ex?
Next, you need to change and not just physically but also emotionally. Think about the changes you may have to make in order to allow a new relationship to function effectively and decide whether they will be sustainable. Be the person that he fell in love with. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile
After you feel an appropriate amount of time has passed, begin by casually contacting him. Slowly build up this contact until you feel confident enough to invite him on an outing. Ensure you invite him on an outing in which he will be able to participate in an activity you may have enjoyed previously as a couple. This will remind him how good your relationship used to be.
Remember, when you have the opportunity to hang out together again, do not spoil it by lodging on the negative past. Go out and have fun together. Use this time to show him how much effort you have put into changing things that may have previously affected your relationship. Good luck, Girls!