Masturbate Before Sex to Prolong Ejaculation?

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When asking someone how to prolong ejaculation during sex, the most common answer or "advice" you will get is, masturbate before having sex. BUT, does this really work? Is this effective?

I've personally tried it and this is what I have to say about it. Your experience might not be the same, but this is what I've personally learned and noticed from trying the above method. I do NOT recommend masturbating before having sex.

1) It can affect your sex drive. If you masturbate before having sex, you may not be as horny anymore, and this may end up making your partner upset. No one likes to have sex with someone who's not in the mood. It just makes it awkward, and it's awkward being really horny when you can sense the other party involved does not feel the same way.

That's my first and main point against masturbating before sexual activity.

2) Your erection will not be as hard as before! This will probably apply to most, if not all men (except they're using Viagra or something like that), but after your first ejaculation, you will notice that your erection is not as hard as before. It's always the hardest the first time around, and your partner likes it best when its at its hardest! Ask any woman, and she'll confirm this.

3) You will not "cum" as much. Well, since you already blew off your load once, you will not cum as much the next time around. Some males like blowing off a huge load, and it can also be an exciting sight for females too. Maybe it's a case of the more, the merrier?

4) A sore penis. I do not know about you, but my penis is usually more sore after when I masturbate. It could just be the way I masturbate, but I also find that my balls hurt afterward too, for some reason. And the pain takes a while to go away. Anyways, point is, it's not as fun when you're having sex with a sore penis.

So, with that said, I would recommend everyone to take their penis' into battle when its fully charged and at its prime, in other words, do NOT masturbate before having sex!