Some people can go through their entire life cheating on their partners. These people are very good liars and also very good at covering their tracks. Discovering that your spouse may be cheating may be very difficult to prove. Confronting your partner about your suspicions before you have concrete proof may make them more elusive and the proof more difficult to obtain.
The following signs may or may not be telltale signs of a cheating wife on their own, but a combination of these signs may give you cause to arouse your suspicions.
- A sudden urge to take trips alone either business or pleasure.
- Hiding things or suddenly shutting down the computer when you are near.
- A sudden use of alcohol
- Coming home with the smell of perfume on their clothing, and you know its not what they usually wear.
- A sudden urge to do their own laundry when it’s not something they would normally do. Perhaps trying to get rid of perfume or lipstick evidence.
- Mileage on the family car suddenly begins to appear excessive.
- Taking a shower as soon as they get home.
- Suddenly hanging up the phone when you enter the room.
- Unexplained absences or making excuses for working late.
- Suddenly wanting nothing to do with sex or perhaps wanting an excessive amount, and wanting to try strange or unusual positions.
- They suddenly decide to take unusual interest in grooming, buying new clothes or changing to a different brand of perfume or cologne.
- A renewed interest in working out or going to the gym.
- Hanging around with new friends.
- Picking a fight with you for no apparent reason and storming out the door.
- Suddenly every thing you do just doesn’t seem to please them.
- The numbers on their cell phone bill are mainly the same number.
- Suddenly becoming abusive or disrespectful of other members of the household and always quick to argue.
If you suspect signs of a cheating wife, you are probably right. It is very important not to rush to judgment. A good place to start would be to take notes, along with times and dates. This will be very important if you need to prove your case at a later date. Admitting that your mate is cheating is not an easy thing to do. Just remember that it can happen to anyone and you are not at fault.